What might seem like too much sex to one person may seem like too little to another: (Remember that scene in Annie Hall, in which Woody Allen and Diane Keaton are discussing their sex life, split-screen, with their respective therapists?Asks Woody’s therapist, “How often do you sleep together? Maybe three times a week.” Meanwhile, Diane Keaton’s therapist is asking her the very same question, and she replies, “Constantly.I'd say three times a week.”) Every couple have to find their own middle ground.
The book, The Joy of Cybersex, argued that the World Wide Web was a godsend for this reason. Say: ‘Sure, honey, but I’d actually rather be a rocket scientist, okay? Think about it for a few minutes, fix yourself a drink, and succumb to the unknown.
When my sister, searching for images of her favorite British pop stars, accidentally typed “Spicy Girls” into Yahoo, the search results made her run, shrieking, from the family computer. “It is probably no coincidence that this sea change comes on us at a time when AIDS lurks in the alleyways of our lives,” a writer for The Nation mused in 1993.
Months later, the New York Times reiterated the point.
Most found it entertaining (some of her reasons included the show ) but the obvious underlying issue is the fact that A WOMAN NEVER OWES YOU SEX.
As in literally never, not if you’re married, dating, horny, drunk or haven’t had it in six years – a woman will have sex with you when SHE feels like – NOT because you think she owes you.